Friday, January 3, 2014

Life: From 2013 to 2014*

Considering one of my 2014 goals is to be more consistent on writing; I should probably show some love to my blog. Plus, after a few too many days of no updates I will start getting calls and texts from my mom, my sister in law and my best friend telling me they are getting tired of opening my page and not seeing anything new. So hello to you gals, my faithful readers, and hello to my husband, who in the rare occasion gets some down time, checks in to see if I'm doing a little too much husband bragging ;) (hes a bit too modest for that kind of stuff)- and hello to all my other readers; HAPPY NEW YEAR to you all! I, like many other resolution makers out there, vow to stick to this one- so stay tuned! 

Along with writing, I have plenty of other 2014 goals I plan to conquer! I am a sucker for resolutions, always have been! My husband laughs at me because come New Years Eve I have a list started of everything I want to start doing, stop doing, continue doing, do better at, do more of.... all of which I forget a few short days/weeks later. Can I tell you what my resolutions were from last year? No probably not. Did something drastically change from 2013 to 2014 that I vowed to change? Not in the sense of resolutions. Did I have a great year? Absolutely. Was it because I made a bunch of resolutions that I stuck to? Absolutely not. BUT resolutions are fun, and they remind me of the importance of setting goals and of reflecting on my life. So with 4 days of 2014 under my belt, it is time for me to curl up to a cup of coffee and do just that. I broke it down into three lists- feel free to join along and do some reflecting of your own! 




Memories from 2013
  • Starting a job that I love!! 
  • Welcoming new babies into my life, and finding out about new babies that are coming in 2014!
  • Getting to spend so much time with my Mom, brother and sister in law! 
  • Celebrating munchkin's 8th birthday in Chicago. 
  • Seeing my daughter become a confident and brave little girl! I am so proud of her for everything she has accomplished this year! Things I would have never had the courage to do at her age. 
  • Watching my husband pursue his dreams of becoming a firefighter, and continuing that dream of becoming an EMT this year! I am so incredibly proud of him!

Lessons from 2013
  • Beauty has more to do with how I feel than how I look. 
  • I am capable of making a difference in others lives simply by smiling. 
  • I can survive waking up at 4:30 in the morning and spending 12 hours on my feet, and enjoy myself while doing it. 
  • Frustrating people don't have to frustrate me. I am in charge of how I react to others. 
  • Small acts of kindness can soften the hardest of hearts (I've learned this with dealing with my patients) 
  • Caring what other people think of me is incredibly draining and so not worth it. Love yourself, be yourself, and do whatever the heck you want! If someone has a problem with it, oh well!
  • Being optimistic is a lot of fun! So I apologize to all my twitter followers for overflowing your feed with positive polly posts, but they make my days a little brighter! Living 2014 with a glass half FULL mentality :) 



Goals for 2014 
  • Try something new: take a spin class; or a Pilates class; run a 1/2 marathon maybe?; go gluten free; read a book I wouldn't normally pick
  • SODA FREE in 2014!!! (haven't had mt. dew in an entire week--oh m gee. I thought I was dying, caffeine withdraw is real..and it blows) 
  • spend more time at home. I am always on the go and get anxious if I am not doing something constantly, but I want to slow down and learn to enjoy simplicity. 
  • Pamper myself. Because I deserve it! And well I'm sure my husband will appreciate shaved legs. 
  • Take more risks! 
  • Write without censors. 
  • Go to Church consistently 
  • Wear more red lipstick. 
  • Become my daughters cheerleader instead of just her leader! I want to be a better example of gratitude for her!
  • Be a better friend to my husband, and never let him go a day without showing him how much I appreciate everything he does! 
From 2013 to 2014, wishing you all a year of memories, lessons learned and goals achieved! Until next year! 

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